Date Night Hustle: Are You Paying More Than You Bargained For?
Cheeky Confessions from a Relationship Maestro
What’s the price tag of your date night? Sure, you might think it's all about the swanky restaurant, the top-shelf wine, or the exclusive VIP nightclub passes. But honey, it’s about much more! Your time, your attention, and, oh, let's not forget, the secret currency of all relationships – energy.
The Mystery of the 80/20 Dating Rule
Alright, buckle up because we're diving into the wild, wacky world of dating dynamics. This is a tale of two energies – regular and sexual. The 80/20 rule, that cheeky little scamp, says you get 80% of your kicks from 20% of your relationships. Sounds confusing? Welcome to my world!
Imagine you’re dating an alpha dog, the star football player or the irresistible heartthrob. You're his 80%. He wines and dines you, you receive his energy, and voila – you're on cloud nine! You feel alive, desirable, and oh-so-special.
Now, let me spill a secret here. You’re at dinner, indulging in the best culinary delights your beau can buy. But every cent he spends isn’t just for the steak or the wine. It's to keep you away from your 20%, your comfortable friend zone pal, your faithful BFF. Suddenly, you're not just dining; you’re part of an energy exchange!
Love, Sex and The Alpha Male
You’re probably asking, "What's wrong with that?" Nothing! Except you’re trading your comfort for a high, a rush that comes with alpha energy. But remember, love comes before sex in the natural energy order. Mix up the sequence, and you’re in for a world of confusion.
Oh, how I remember an old flame of mine, a stunning redhead named Daisy. She was my 80%, and she reveled in the alpha energy I provided. Until one day, she asked, "Is this all there is?" That, my dear friends, was the day Daisy decided she was worth more than fancy dinners and high-octane nights. She sought love, not just sexual energy.
Trading Your Energy: Finding The Balance
So, here’s the deal, ladies. If you’re someone’s 80%, charge more for your time. Get out of your comfort zone and start hinting that you’re ready for more. Flirt, push boundaries, steer the energy in your direction. You've got power! Use it to build the relationship you desire.
As for the guys, don’t just bank on sexual energy to keep her interested. Show her love. It's okay to be the "bestie," the one who gets her, the one she can count on. Remember, in love and in war, timing is everything.
Key Points:
- Understand the dynamics of the 80/20 dating rule.
- Recognize the exchange of energies in your relationship.
- Learn to value your time and energy in a relationship.
Be unapologetically selfish. Because when you find happiness, you're giving others a chance to witness it too.
Remember, "If you can’t see your success, change your vantage point.”