Opening Act: The Dating Dance of Desire

Ladies, let's spill some tea. We love being swept off our feet, doused in lavish love and sparks of sexual energy. We entertain multiple dance partners, each catering to a different craving. It's our game, our rules – but it might feel like we're 'cheating' the game.

Why Commitment Can Lead to Missteps

Once you've taken the pledge of fidelity, why the clandestine detours? It's not about breaking hearts or taking advantage. Sometimes, it's about self-preservation, perhaps a lack of self-confidence. Deep down, you wonder if you'd find such a fulfilling mix elsewhere.

The Confidence Conundrum

You weren't sure of your own worth when you chose him. Perhaps he doesn’t satisfy all your desires. There's an itch you can't ignore, a bucket not quite full. It's like winning a million bucks, only to realize you need three to really feel like a millionaire.

The Energy Mix-Up

Trying to make up for the lack of emotional depth with material things only muddies the waters. Mixing energies often breeds confusion. You may find yourself yearning for something more profound, something more fulfilling than mere baubles.

How You Miss the Telltale Signs

Men are natural givers; women, receivers. The subtleties in energy shifts often fly under the radar. If she keeps you emotionally sated, you miss the signs. It's not a battle of wits – it's about energy exchange.

The Unveiling of Infidelity

Women, much like men, get caught in the glare of unfaithfulness when they're ready. It's when the outsider steps into the limelight, the spotlight begins to heat up. Beware of a little something extra in her emotional exchange, a memory slip that tips you off.

Guard Your Bucket, Ladies

In my books, a woman cheating stings more than a man's missteps. We carry the world in our buckets, and we ought to guard them fiercely. We are creators; our energies sacred. Protect your bucket, let in only the deserving.

Key Points:

1. Women often cheat due to a lack of self-confidence or dissatisfaction in a relationship.
2. Mixing different energy forms can lead to confusion.
3. Men often miss the signs of a cheating woman due to the emotional fulfilment they receive.
4. Women get caught in infidelity when they are ready, and their attention is largely elsewhere.

Intro: The Tantalizing Tango of Energy

We've all been there – that intoxicating dance of courtship, sizzling with promise. When everything aligns, it's electric! But what happens when the energy balance tips? When you can't keep her brimming with your brand of premium energy, the sparks start to flicker out. It's like a romantic power outage!

How Misalignment Sparks Cheating

Once your love battery starts to drain, you lose ground. Suddenly, you're not standing toe-to-toe anymore. She begins to eye the big leagues - hunks she previously couldn’t spot. This energy misalignment can often lead to those forbidden ‘C’ words - Cheating and Cuckolding.

Heading: Discovering Your Inner Beast

Men, let's face it, we're beasts. And when our energy overflows, we seek an outlet. Meet Eleanor – she can handle the extra juice. But she’s not your significant other, is she? You’re playing with fire, and before you know it, you’re singeing your perfectly groomed brows.

How the Beast Gets Busted

Ironically, it's your own brain that snitches on you. Post fling, you’re likely to fill your woman’s bucket with a love cocktail, mixed with a dash of something else (ahem, guilt!). It's like switching her from full-fat Coke to Diet. She'll taste the difference.

Key Points:

1. Energy balance is key in any relationship.
2. Cheating is often the outcome of energy imbalance.
3. Over or under-release of energy can trigger cheating.
4. Your own mind can create scenarios leading to you being caught.

The Journey from Beast to Beauty: The Power of Confidence

Life and love, oh, what a turbulent rollercoaster they weave! Picture the seemingly perfect man – muscular, charismatic, blessed with a charming smile. Yet, he's a beast on the inside, hidden behind a façade, just waiting for his beauty to see the real him.

Tangled in Love: The Ultimate Plight

He fills her life with love, yet he hesitates to express his feelings. His silence stems from a lack of confidence, an all too familiar tale. Tragically, he'd rather face death than bear the agony of her indifference. Isn't it ironic how he'd willingly play her part, constantly suggesting and subtly hinting, in a desperate quest for her reciprocation?

Such is the plight that many men face, their struggle mirrored in countless love stories.

Turning Off the Nozzle: An Illusion of Control

Imagine turning off the nozzle, your hand shaking, heart pounding with uncertainty. You hope she'd step up, break the silence, but the moment she does, you fear the balance tilting. Your ego misinterprets her intervention as a power play, when all she craves is your leadership, your protection. You desire safety yet fail to realize – you can't feel secure until you provide her with the same.

Believe in yourself, be confident in your ability to make her feel cherished.

Overcoming the Bricks in The Bucket

She may have numerous 'bricks' in her bucket - a dominating father, looming financial concerns, intrusive friends, or even a past lover. Regardless of what it is, your role is to replace these obstructions, to fill her life with love and sexual energy. You are the chosen one, the man meant to understand the magnitude of her needs, her capacity to receive.

The 30 Second Rule: Unleashing Your Inner Beauty

Time, my friends, is the most precious commodity. Don't squander it due to fear or a lack of confidence. Adopt the 30-second rule: if it no longer serves you, release it within 30 seconds. If it keeps returning or if you find yourself gravitating towards it, it's time to reevaluate.

If she was the issue, let her go. If it was you, confront your fears, kill your inner beast, and let your inner beauty shine through. Don't allow your insecurities to keep you shackled. Procrastination breeds anxiety, and remember, fear is but a mere illusion.

At the end of the day, darlings, remember to be fabulously selfish. Revel in your happiness, and let others witness the magic.

And always remember, "If you can’t see your success, change your vantage point.”

The Game of Love: Time To Hit The Reset Button

Let’s set the stage, dear friends. We live in a world where men are energy givers, women energy receivers. Sounds simple, right? But oh, what a tangled web we weave when the energy exchange goes haywire! So, grab your cup of joe or that glass of chardonnay, and let’s dive into this juicy bit of controversy.

The Gender Energy Puzzle: Are We To Blame?

Now, I’ve heard whispers about my previous posts, about them burdening the fairer sex with the brunt of the relationship responsibility. Guilty as charged, darlings! You see, men, bless our competitive hearts, we're destined to release, and women, by their very nature, are destined to receive.

Imagine the energy as water, your hearts as buckets. Men will pour into your bucket – be it love, frustration, admiration, or annoyance. You, ladies, have to decide how much of it you wish to carry. Now here comes the catch – the size of your bucket and what you allow to fill it. You get to be the gatekeepers of your emotional realm. Ain’t that a kicker?

The Dating Game & The 80/20 Rule

Picture this: it’s game day, and you, my lovely lady, have no interest in the sport. You disrupt his focus, he’s frustrated, and voila, your bucket gets a dose of 'regular' energy. Now both of you are livid! He’s off to work the next day, grumbling about wanting a wife who lets him watch the game.

Enter stage right: the charming co-worker who loves sports. Suddenly, he's tempted by a different 80%. This endless cycle can carry on until break-ups or divorce, only to realize, we men started this problem!

The Rise of The Independent Woman

And so, ladies, to avoid any more heartache, you decided to become "independent". You threw a brick in your bucket, ensuring it would never overflow. You put up walls, branding it as being 'comfortably single'. And somewhere along this journey, you lost the ability to subtly suggest, to softly guide.

But here’s a funny thing about being an "independent" woman – you can accumulate wealth and material comforts, but when your maternal instinct kicks in, you’re back in the receiving end, yearning for the warmth of sexual energy.

The Mix-Up of Energies: The Grand Confusion

Your directness, a trait that made you a boss in the first place, can excite us men. However, it can also lead to an unintended release of sexual energy before love, creating confusion and misunderstandings.

See, my friends, the confidence gap is the real villain here. We, men, need the courage to stay, to believe that we’re chosen for something more than just sexual energy. And you, ladies, need the faith to let us stay, to guide us subtly, to help us understand what you truly desire.

Key Takeaways:

1. Recognize the natural flow of energies in relationships.
2. Understand the consequences of switching roles.
3. Cultivate the confidence to guide your relationship positively.

At the end of the day, all I’m saying is let’s play the game fairly. Let’s understand the power we hold over each other’s buckets and fill them with love, understanding, and respect.

As always, be fabulously selfish. Revel in your happiness, and let others witness the magic.

Remember, “If you can’t see your success, change your vantage point.”

Cheeky Confessions from a Relationship Maestro

What’s the price tag of your date night? Sure, you might think it's all about the swanky restaurant, the top-shelf wine, or the exclusive VIP nightclub passes. But honey, it’s about much more! Your time, your attention, and, oh, let's not forget, the secret currency of all relationships – energy.

The Mystery of the 80/20 Dating Rule

Alright, buckle up because we're diving into the wild, wacky world of dating dynamics. This is a tale of two energies – regular and sexual. The 80/20 rule, that cheeky little scamp, says you get 80% of your kicks from 20% of your relationships. Sounds confusing? Welcome to my world!

Imagine you’re dating an alpha dog, the star football player or the irresistible heartthrob. You're his 80%. He wines and dines you, you receive his energy, and voila – you're on cloud nine! You feel alive, desirable, and oh-so-special.

Now, let me spill a secret here. You’re at dinner, indulging in the best culinary delights your beau can buy. But every cent he spends isn’t just for the steak or the wine. It's to keep you away from your 20%, your comfortable friend zone pal, your faithful BFF. Suddenly, you're not just dining; you’re part of an energy exchange!

Love, Sex and The Alpha Male

You’re probably asking, "What's wrong with that?" Nothing! Except you’re trading your comfort for a high, a rush that comes with alpha energy. But remember, love comes before sex in the natural energy order. Mix up the sequence, and you’re in for a world of confusion.

Oh, how I remember an old flame of mine, a stunning redhead named Daisy. She was my 80%, and she reveled in the alpha energy I provided. Until one day, she asked, "Is this all there is?" That, my dear friends, was the day Daisy decided she was worth more than fancy dinners and high-octane nights. She sought love, not just sexual energy.

Trading Your Energy: Finding The Balance

So, here’s the deal, ladies. If you’re someone’s 80%, charge more for your time. Get out of your comfort zone and start hinting that you’re ready for more. Flirt, push boundaries, steer the energy in your direction. You've got power! Use it to build the relationship you desire.

As for the guys, don’t just bank on sexual energy to keep her interested. Show her love. It's okay to be the "bestie," the one who gets her, the one she can count on. Remember, in love and in war, timing is everything.

Key Points:

1. Understand the dynamics of the 80/20 dating rule.
2. Recognize the exchange of energies in your relationship.
3. Learn to value your time and energy in a relationship.

Be unapologetically selfish. Because when you find happiness, you're giving others a chance to witness it too.

Remember, "If you can’t see your success, change your vantage point.”

"Energy: The Misunderstood Powerhouse"

In our quest for success, we often misinterpret the use of our energy. Instead of directing it towards the things that truly serve us, we tend to bottle it up or misuse it in an attempt to impress others. Energy, in its purest form, should flow – released and received in a constant cycle, but we often find ourselves directing it at things that don't truly serve us.

"The Pitfall of Misdirected Energy"

Consider this scenario: a young man yearns for the attention of a high school sweetheart, but she's drawn to the star football player. Without the confidence to express his feelings, he redirects his energy towards mirroring what he believes she desires. He builds muscles, amasses wealth, and pumps up his confidence. While on the surface this may seem positive, there's a fundamental issue: he's not being selfish – he's being selfless.

He sacrifices his own passion and identity to impress someone else or to evade potential rejection. In this process, the achievement becomes a potent cocktail of undirected sexual energy, a sensation of dominance that could potentially turn addictive. The result? A psychological addiction that escalates with each release when love is absent.

"Hollywood Syndrome: The Addiction to External Validation"

Jay Z and Beyonce once referred to Hollywood as the world's most addictive drug. To me, this Hollywood syndrome represents the addictive cycle of releasing and receiving sexual energy. The rush of being desired, of feeling powerful – it's like a heady, intoxicating drug.

Imagine a woman who, through association with an alpha male, is elevated in status. She's now the object of many men's desires, she's envied by women – she's at the center of attention. But as she matures, she realizes that she's chasing an elusive, superficial high – that her alpha male represents the 80% who can only fill her bucket with 20% of the energy she craves.

"Finding 'The One': The Search for Genuine Fulfillment"

The quest for 'The One' – the partner who requires more than just sexual energy – takes both men and women through a series of relationships. 'The One' demands the release of love first, followed by sexual energy. 'The One' offers the best of both worlds: a bucket filled with love and sexual energy.

For a man, 'The One' helps channel his energy towards his passions. For a woman, she finds a partner who radiates confidence and offers her a satisfying blend of love and sexual energy. This balanced dynamic replaces the need for the addictive Hollywood syndrome, the artificial high of fame, and the superficial glow of the limelight.

Key Points:

• Misdirected energy can lead to a selfless sacrifice of personal passions and identity for external validation.
• The addictive cycle of releasing and receiving sexual energy can create an unhealthy dependency on external validation – the 'Hollywood Syndrome'.
• Finding 'The One' – a partner who requires more than just sexual energy – can provide a healthier and more fulfilling relationship dynamic.

 

The 80/20 Rule: A Tale of Two Buckets

Ever seen a man in the friend zone of the woman he adores? Or a woman longing for the man who showers her with love but lacks the confidence to make a move? Welcome to the love labyrinth, my friends. The intricate dance of emotions playing out here beautifully exemplifies the 80/20 rule in relationships.

A quick refresher on this rule: it’s the notion that 20% of your relationship gives you 80% of your happiness. Sounds skewed, right? Well, let me illustrate with a relatable example. Look into your wardrobe. You’ll find that you wear 20% of your clothes 80% of the time. It's about finding the small portion that yields the maximum satisfaction.

The Man's Perspective: The Confidence Conundrum

In this puzzling game of hearts, the man often falls for a woman who fills his happiness bucket 80% of the time, possesses most of the qualities he seeks in a mate. However, owing to a twist in fate, he ends up releasing his pent-up sexual energy into another woman, who represents the remaining 20%. This relationship matrix spins further out of control when he exhibits supreme confidence with his 80% woman, yet stumbles when dealing with his 20%. The end result? A cocktail of confusion and misplaced energy.

The Woman's Perspective: The Need for Super Octane

Now, let's switch gears and look at it from the woman's perspective. Despite the man’s lack of confidence in expressing his feelings, he fills her love bucket. However, to tip over into the realm of complete fulfillment, she craves the super-octane fuel – sexual energy.

As the man continues to do all the romantic things - long walks, cozy dinners, intimate conversations – yet hesitates to unleash his sexual energy, she finds herself still longing for more. Thus, enters another man, who fills her up with the much-needed sexual energy, lighting her up, making her feel alive.

Here’s the fascinating, and somewhat tragic part: she knows that this man represents 80% of men who can only fill her with 20% of the energy she needs. It's the quintessential relationship conundrum: a woman's bucket filled by two donors, with a man releasing his energy into more than one bucket.

One Bucket, One Donor: The Ideal Relationship

In an ideal world, we shouldn't split our energy between multiple recipients. Especially not after we've experienced love. As we grow and understand our sexual energy, it's essential to express confidence with our chosen partners, releasing all our energy into one bucket. In doing so, we not only take the pressure off ourselves but also foster a healthier relationship. In essence, removing the conundrum leaves us with just the relationship.

Key Points:

• The 80/20 rule suggests that 20% of your relationship gives you 80% of your happiness.
• Both men and women often split their emotional and sexual energies between two partners, leading to confusion.
• Confidence and full energy investment in a single relationship can lead to mutual satisfaction and fulfillment.

The Enigma of Alcohol: A Potion of Pulsating Emotions

Alcohol, folks, is like a wild party in a bottle, a liquid pulsating with a sexual energy-like charisma. The catch? It's a master at amplifying your emotions. Picture it as a prism reflecting your feelings in myriad colors. It’s not the high-octane rush of sexual energy, but its formula mirrors it.

When you’re down in the dumps, alcohol might lead you on a tear-streaked journey. On the other hand, if you’re radiating positivity or brimming with love, it might transform you into an affectionate teddy bear.

So remember, friends, alcohol is like a revealing mirror. It peels away your shields and uncovers your true emotions.

Men, Alcohol, and the Energy Flux

Now, let's bring men into the picture. Picture a man who's been amping up his tank with sexual energy, and then alcohol comes into play. Boom! Things escalate real quick. If his feelings are anything but love, he's ready to brawl. But if love's the culprit, he's looking to, ahem, "get down to business."

Women, Alcohol, and the Role Reversal

Ladies, here’s your turn. When your emotional bucket is filled with negativity, alcohol tends to provoke a masculine response, making you feel invincible, even imagining taking down a man in a fight. On the flip side, when love's got your bucket brimming, and alcohol's added to the mix, it nudges you towards releasing sexual energy. Caution, ladies! Proceed with care, unless unexpected consequences don't faze you.

In short, alcohol is like an emotion enhancer. It amplifies the three forms of energy - love, negativity, and sexual - leaving you in a whirlpool of confused feelings. Unless you have control over your emotions, this confusion can lead to dependency.

Marijuana: The Love Conductor

Marijuana, my dear friends, is like a symphony of love. It relaxes your mind, opens new channels of thought - the telltale signs of love energy. It's like a key that unlocks your subconscious mind, flooding it with ideas about things you cherish. When you’re under its influence, releasing sexual energy feels purely physical. Plus, marijuana-induced killing sprees? That's a narrative you don't hear.

I believe Marijuana's illegal status is tied to its feel-good factor. This joyful state can lead to creative, self-focused ideas, which may seem revolutionary or unconventional to some.

Key Points:

• Alcohol and marijuana manipulate our emotions differently, with alcohol acting as an emotion enhancer and marijuana serving as a love conductor.
• Alcohol amplifies our energy states, potentially leading to extreme behaviors.
• Marijuana promotes a relaxed state conducive to introspective thinking, encouraging positive self-discovery.
• Understanding these effects can help us better control our reactions and behaviors when using these substances.

Falling in Love: Happenstance or Masterstroke?

Let me drop some truth here. You're in charge of your own love saga, folks. You're the skipper steering your love boat towards the mystical island of ‘Happily Ever After.’ It’s like the iconic poem, Invictus, you're the boss of your fate, the lead actor in your romantic comedy.

The Curious Case of Best Friends in Love

Picture this: Your best friend, the one who's stuck around through your dramatic breakups and weird obsessions, happens to be of the opposite sex. You've both been in this Platonic purgatory for years, believing that dating each other would be as disastrous as pineapple on pizza. I beg to differ!

In this energy-charged dance, there's always one doing the tango of love. Often, this tango manifests subtly, hidden under layers of friendly banter and harmless suggestions.

The Friendzone Chronicles: When He's the One Waiting

Once upon a time, I had a client. Let's call him John. John was stuck in this situation, holding a torch for his best friend who was blissfully unaware. Over the years, he silently filled her love bucket but never managed to refill his own. As John's romantic energy turned into sexual tension, he struggled to make her see his feelings for her. His other relationships fell apart because all his love was parked in her heart, leaving only negativity to share with others. All the while, his best friend remained oblivious to his coded messages, resulting in a self-fulfilling prophecy of a relationship doomed before it even began.

When She's the One Patiently Waiting in the Wings

Flip the coin and meet Jane, another client. Jane was filling up her love tank, banking on her best friend to eventually see the light. But here's the tricky part. Jane, just like many of us, had her insecurities. She questioned if her love was enough, if her capacity to love was as big as she thought. And you know what? Her insecurities were like a brick, blocking the way to her heart and holding back the love she truly deserved.

The Love-At-First-Sight Misconception

Let's clear one thing up, folks. The idea that things just ‘happen’ - nah, it’s a myth. Remember that steamy eye contact with a stranger at a party? It was no random coincidence, darling. Those shared emotions were all because he turned up the charm, lit the spark, and played the game of attraction with finesse.

Key Points:

• Love doesn’t just happen; it’s the result of subtle hints, underlying desires, and conscious actions.
• The dynamic between best friends of opposite genders often involves unexpressed love and sexual tension.
• These hidden feelings affect their relationships with others, leading to dissatisfaction and failure.
• Understanding and accepting one’s emotional capacity is key to successful relationships.
• Love-at-first-sight is usually the result of carefully orchestrated moves, not mere happenstance.

Hey there, sexy souls! Ever thought about your first love, that sweet little girl or boy from the good old days? Buckle up, we're heading down a trail of memories that may just reignite that childhood flame.

The Games of Childhood Love

Remember when you were just a sprout of nine? You and the cutie from across the street, partners in crime since the sandbox, spent hours transforming the wooden playground into your secret castle. One fateful evening, as the setting sun cast a golden glow on her face, you thought, "Dang, she’s stunning!" But, as the innocent little rascal you were, you brushed off that enchanting moment, returning to your playdate like nothing happened. Your parents saw you two as lovebirds in training, while you bravely protected her, the young Alpha in shining armor.

Then, just like a romantic plot twist, her dad’s new job relocated them across town, and the playdates came to a sudden halt. It felt like your hearts were being separated forever.

A Time for College and A Time for Love

Fast forward to your college years. You're at a different university in another part of the state. She’s somewhere else too. Attending a love conference with the infamous Swagger Coach, a sense of familiarity washes over you as the Coach narrates a tale eerily similar to yours. With every sentence, your heart pounds harder, memories flood back, and there it is—that picture of her in the golden sunlight, forever etched in your mind.

You get lost in your inner dialogue, pondering a barrage of what-ifs. As the Coach's voice fades into a thunderous hum, his shouts of "YES!" matched by the crowd's affirmations, you begin to unravel the depth of your feelings. Amidst this turmoil, you realize you've left your cell phone at your seat. The relief of finding it in your vest pocket is short-lived as you feel a familiar energy around you.

The Beautiful Reunion

Walking towards your car with an overpriced soda in hand, you see her. Yes, HER. Amid the hustle and bustle, you clumsily bump into someone, attracting everyone's attention. Then you hear it, your name in her voice. There she is, standing in front of you, and you both start talking as if you're twelve again.

As the sun begins to set, you see the twelve-year-old girl in her, and this time, you audibly tell her, "You're beautiful."

The Alpha Male, The Love, and The Bucket

This was a tale of young, innocent love, where he felt good around her, and in return, filled her bucket with love. As a naive child, he didn’t understand the intense feelings he had for her. However, upon recognizing her beauty, his sexual energy emerged for the first time.

These early love experiences often result in a bond with that 'bucket.' And even if she isn’t the original love or an exact replica, a man will eventually seek a replacement.

The Rib Connection: An Unbreakable Bond

Young, immature relationships are often filled with unreciprocated feelings. But what if that girl, your childhood flame, was your 'rib,' your soulmate, and you didn't even know it? The beauty of this 'rib' connection is that, like a boomerang, it eventually returns to its owner.

That sense of completion when you're with your 'rib,' that unspoken understanding, that tumultuous love-hate relationship—it's all part of the magnetic pull between two connected souls. And it's up to you whether you want to reunite with your 'rib' or let it go.

So, if you're reading this together, remember how innocent and immature you were, and how those experiences shaped your reunion. Love is the most powerful energy, and there's only one 'bucket' designed for you. ALLOW HIM TO LOVE YOU! ALLOW HER TO LOVE YOU! Keep this love cycle spinning, like a merry-go-round with infinite passes and endless time. It's all good!

Remember, always be 'fuching selfish.' It's through witnessing your happiness that others can see the same in themselves.

“If you can’t see your success, change your vantage point”

Hey, lovers and love-seekers! Buckle up because we're about to embark on a tantalizing journey into the high-octane world of relationships and that elusive attribute we like to call S.W.A.G. Ready? Good, because I’m dying to share some dynamite insights, served with a side of flirty humor.

Fire up with the Energy Types

You're all too familiar with gas stations, right? Now, imagine people—yes, you and me—as those fascinating fuel pumps. Men are the generators, creating energy that women happily store. Oh, but don't underestimate our female counterparts, they've got their own sustainable energy production, too!

Regular is the energy equivalent of that late-night Netflix binge—an easy fix but not so great in the long run. Next, we've got Plus, the classy energy of love—think of it as the Dom Pérignon of feelings. And finally, Premium, the racehorse of energies, powerful, intense, and hmmm... sexually charged!

Let me share a little secret from my younger years. I was a total Regular guy—cheap, readily available, but somewhat destructive. Once I discovered my Plus and Premium energy, my love life shifted gears dramatically. Trust me, unleashing your inner Lamborghini beats being a clunky old jalopy.

Choosing your Energy Bucket

Now, let's talk about that perplexing puzzle. Why do men pick women with small energy buckets, and women opt for men who can’t quite fill theirs up? Brace yourself for a sharp turn into the intriguing world of S.W.A.G.

Men often lean towards a smaller bucket—mostly due to a love-first, sex-second approach. It’s like expecting a juicy steak dinner and settling for a quick burger. Sure, it's tasty, but it leaves you craving for more. Ladies, on the other hand, are quite the tacticians. They pick guys who just can’t fill their buckets, making them spill all their love and sexual energy. Clever, isn’t it?

The Alpha Energy Gamble

Some crafty folks have cracked the code of this energy dance. Ever seen a guy driving a Bentley on a McDonald’s salary? That's a perfect metaphor for someone releasing sexual energy before love. It’s like the Plus energy gets bumped to the backseat. The downside? It's a rather bumpy ride and can end up with one’s heart in the repair shop.

Women pull off a similar trick. They find men who give it all but still leave some room in the bucket. This constant shortfall pushes them to refill their own buckets or stick with the memory of the man who once did.

S.W.A.G. - Your Love Life's Secret Weapon

Time for the grand reveal: S.W.A.G. is the magic touch that converts this chaotic energy dance into a passionate tango. It's your unique charm, your irresistible smile, your special brand of charisma, and your boundless energy all wrapped into one. With S.W.A.G, you're like a magnet for both sexes. Everyone wants a piece of your energy, and boy, are you ready to share!

When women channel their S.W.A.G, they become an irresistible force. Men are drawn to them like bees to honey, competing to fill their big buckets.

Key Points:

• Energy Types: Understand the Regular, Plus, and Premium energy in relationships.
• Choosing your Energy Bucket: Uncover why men pick women with smaller energy buckets and women opt for men who can’t quite fill theirs.
• The Alpha Energy Gamble: Learn about the risky strategy of releasing sexual energy before love.
• S.W.A.G. - Your Love Life's Secret Weapon: Discover how S.W.A.G can turbocharge your love life.

The Enigma of Love and Lust: Buckets, Bricks, and Nozzles

Ever had that burning urge to spill a secret? Oh, goodie. You're in for a treat. You see, relationships are fundamentally about energy. Yes, the sweet whispers of love and the tantalizing dance of desire are all different beats of the same rhythm. Let's call women the bucket (needing filling) and men the nozzle (doing the filling).

Feeling like you're dragging a brick in your bucket or the nozzle's gone dry? Relax, darlings, we're here to break the chains and unleash your love energy. Keep your eyes glued, it's about to get steamy.

Getting Steamy: Our Energy, Our Passion

Imagine being a man as having a robust, ever-ready gas tank. This beastly beauty gets filled with various forms of emotional energy, eagerly waiting to roar into action. But what energy, you ask?

There's the everyday stuff, the heady cocktail of love, and finally, the intoxicating sexual energy. Here's the juicy part: every moment, every interaction gets powered by these energies. Imagine a consistent love energy keeping you in a delightful "in love" haze, adding that perfect zest to your romance. Delicious, isn't it?

The Energies of Love: Regular, Plus, and Premium

Consider the everyday stuff as 'Regular' – it's the fuel most of us use. Men tend to fill their tanks with this energy, derived from all sorts of emotions, even negative ones. So, when they release this energy, the anger or sadness doesn't last long, unless they don't have an outlet. That's the secret behind their short-lived bouts of fury or gloom. Beware, ladies, if you're receiving too much of this, you might just be the dumping ground for his emotional waste.

Then we have 'Plus' – our beloved love energy. It's like filling up your luxury car with the good stuff. Love keeps the bucket brimming, needing frequent refills, and let's face it, who doesn't like a bit of pampering?

Lastly, we have the 'Premium' – the potent sexual energy. It's the jet fuel of the energy world, meant for high-octane bursts of passion. But remember, it's short-lived, perfect for sprints, not marathons.

From Courtship to Marriage: The Energy Playbook

Remember when you first fell in love? Your fuel tanks were probably mixing love and sexual energy. He was convincing you that you're a luxury car, worthy of the Plus energy. And with time, he began releasing sexual energy as well, leading to that intoxicating blend of love and lust that kick-starts most relationships.

But there's a fine balance here, loves. Sex before love can disrupt the flow. Timing is crucial. It's like trying to put the cart before the horse – it just doesn't work.

The Tug of Love: Energy Dynamics in Marriage

Fast forward to the wedding bells. Her bucket's overflowing with love, but she's craving more intimacy. For him, intimacy translates to sexual energy. If this energy isn't released, it finds alternative outlets – porn, extramarital affairs, you know the drill.

Our great-great-grandmothers knew how to navigate these waters. They directed this potent energy towards a man's goal, allowing him to achieve it. This redirectionis the alchemical transmutation of sex. And because her bucket was already overflowing with love, she could self-sustain, fill her own needs. A woman's strength lies in her self-sufficiency, a fact sometimes overshadowed by the male need to fill.

Understanding Love's Maze: Smaller Buckets and Bricks

Now comes the head-scratcher: why do men find smaller buckets to fill, or women settle for men who barely keep their bucket full? Stay tuned, loves. The next post in this tantalizing series promises some eye-opening insights.

Key Takeaways

1. Relationships revolve around energy dynamics.
2. Men and women have distinct ways of handling energy: men release it; women store it.
3. Three energy types in play: regular (everyday stuff), plus (love), and premium (sexual).
4. Timing and the right mix of love and sexual energy are crucial in relationships.
5. Understanding and directing energy correctly can enhance relationship satisfaction.

Remember, loves, always be fuching selfish, allowing your radiant happiness to inspire others.

Welcome to Love's Twilight Zone

Cue the sultry jazz, uncork that irresistible bottle of red, dim the lights, and ready your heart. We're diving into love's twilight zone, the core truth about relationships, bound to leave the world starry-eyed and a tad lustful. Don't just skim; delve in, visualize, and embrace every word of this seductive tale.

Cracking the Love Code

Both men and women yearn for one thing: energy. And no, I'm not a doctor or psychologist; just your friendly love guru sharing his heart whispers. Picture energy as three types of fuel at a gas station: Regular (Negative energy), Premium (Love energy), and Super Octane (Sexual energy). As natural as a heartbeat, these energies fuel relationships and individuals. Ladies, you're the buckets storing the energy; gents, you're the nozzles releasing it.

The Good, the Bad, and the Sexy

Negative energy, our 'Regular,' is like fast-food - cheap and abundant but not very healthy. This is the fuel that takes the longest to burn out. However, love energy or 'Premium' can speed up its consumption.

Have you ever gifted your spouse flowers after her rough day at work, only to have your gesture rejected? It's not you, darling; she needs to discharge that negative energy first. Remember, it's first-in, first-out.

Mind Over Matter

Did you know your thoughts dictate your energy? So if you're stewing in negativity, you're essentially dousing yourself in 'Regular.' But here's the silver lining: even negative energy can be a force for good, like when it leaves room for sexual energy.

Fueling the Love Engine

As men, we're generators of this energy, refilling our emotional gas tanks. This energy spans across 'Regular,' 'Premium,' and 'Super Octane' (sexual energy), with each moment energized and brimming with momentum. So, keep that love tank full, gents, because the flames of love need constant fueling.

Turning Regular Into Premium

Just as you wouldn't fill a luxury car with regular fuel, we must strive to replace the negative with love. Yes, 'Regular' can take you from point A to B, but 'Premium' offers a smoother, more gratifying ride.

The Need for Speed

And then, there's 'Super Octane,' the fleeting but exhilarating energy of desire. Picture a Formula One racer: it's not for the long haul, but boy, those sprints!

The Emotional Rollercoaster

Let's debunk a myth here: men aren't emotionless. Our feelings generate the energy we release, and though we might not hold onto emotions as women do, we are definitely emotional beings. It just seems like we're not because we transition from one emotion to another rapidly.

Navigating New Love

In the early stages of a relationship, it's a dance of love energy and sexual energy. You remember all those late-night phone chats and romantic walks? That's the 'Premium' being transferred from his tank to her bucket. And as he fills her with love, the sexual energy builds, leading to an intimate crescendo, a deepening relationship, and often, a walk down the aisle.

From Dating to 'I Do'

Moving on to married life, let's solve a mystery: why does her interest in sex wane post-wedding? The answer is simple: her bucket is brimming with love. The overflow, if you may, leads to a desirefor deeper intimacy and emotional connection. She's fueled by 'Premium,' and she seeks to build on it. But for him, intimacy triggers the build-up of 'Super Octane,' the unreleased sexual energy that can lead to issues like pornography or extra-marital affairs.

The Love Triangle

Negative energy, love energy, and sexual energy – they're all interconnected. Picture a triangle, where each point affects the other two. Remember, it's crucial to release love energy before sexual energy; otherwise, it can lead to emotional turmoil.

Choosing the Right Energy

For whatever reason, if you're holding back your love, you may find someone else who demands less energy and has a smaller bucket. It's crucial to choose the right energy and the right person to share it with. Negative energy is a cheap fuel that has high supply and demand, whereas love energy is a premium source that burns slower but more efficiently.

The Dance of Energies

Ultimately, the energy you choose to release and the timing can make all the difference. Be it a new romance or a long-lasting marriage, understanding these energy dynamics can lead to deeper connections and more fulfilling relationships. So fill your tanks with love, let the 'Premium' flow, and don't forget to save some 'Super Octane' for those special moments.

Key Points:

1. Three types of energy impact relationships: negative energy, love energy, and sexual energy.
2. Negative energy is abundant but not very beneficial, akin to 'Regular' gas.
3. Love energy, or 'Premium,' provides a healthier and more fulfilling relationship dynamic.
4. Sexual energy, or 'Super Octane,' is a powerful but fleeting force that can create intense desire.
5. Men generate these energies and transfer them to women, who act as containers for this energy.
6. Negative energy needs to be expended before love or sexual energy can fully bloom.
7. In a relationship, a healthy balance of love and sexual energy can deepen connections and make the bond stronger.
8. Understanding the dynamics of these energies can lead to more satisfying and fulfilling relationships.

Unveiling the Mystery of 'Realistic'

Look, my dear friend, we're constantly thrown around by this concept of 'realistic', right? And as a renowned Relationship Consultant who doubles as an imaginary scholar, I'd like to peel away this mysterious word layer by layer, like unwrapping a passionate lover's gift.

The word 'realistic'. Seems pretty concrete, right? But let's get frisky with it. Breaking it down, 'real' suggests something tangible, while the suffixes 'ist' and 'ic' infuse it with personality and action. Kind of like that hot friend of yours, 'simplistic'—it's all about embracing simplicity, isn't it? Just like her husband who thrives on 'simplistic' instructions while assembling a Swedish flat pack chest.

Taking a Dip in the Pool of 'Realistic'

Coming back to 'realistic', here's the delicious contradiction: if you're 'realistic', you're presumably someone who deals with tangible realities. But does that make 'unrealistic' folks out-of-touch dreamers? Not so fast! In the game of life, what truly is 'real'?

As your Swagger Coxch, let me tease you with a thought. What if being 'unrealistic' is the way to go? Can you recall those daring brothers, who dared to dream of flying like birds? Or that old man, weary of his horse, who envisioned mechanized transport? Once upon a time, even flicking a switch to light your room was deemed 'unrealistic'.

Love: The 'Unrealistic' Ruler of the Universe

Let's spice things up with love—an entity that teases us with its intangible existence. Yet, when you encounter it, its presence is unmistakable, like the electric charge of a first kiss. Love—the most 'unrealistic' yet potent force—shapes realities and births deities. It transforms the mundane into the extraordinary.

When we shun love, we shackle our imagination, robbing ourselves of boundless opportunities. Love fuels positivity, guiding the Universe to respond likewise. Ever wonder why you attract situations that reflect your deepest fears or desires? The Universe is just matching your energy.

Reality vs. Unreality: Flipping the Coin

So, let's play a little game. Imagine a coin toss—the reality and unreality, both possibilities spinning in the air, shrouded in uncertainty. Whichever side it lands on, isn't the unseen side still as real as the visible one?

In this cosmic game of 'unrealistic', isn't it thrilling to think that out of millions, two people can find each other, connecting from different worlds and backgrounds? Love, like Adam's elusive rib, is an unseen treasure, waiting to be discovered, embraced, and cherished.

Key Points:

• The terms 'realistic' and 'unrealistic' are two sides of the same coin.
• Love, an 'unrealistic' concept, has transformative power and fuels positivity.
• Our beliefs shape our realities.
• The Universe responds to the energy we emit.

As always, darling, remember to be fuching selfish—bask in your happiness and let others see their reflection in your joy.

"If you can't see your success, change your vantage point"

 

Embrace The Magician In You

Hello, lovers, and welcome back! As your trusty Relationship Consultant, I've got some spicy intel for you today! Let's dive into the world of manifesting your desires, shall we?

The Magical YOU

I had a eureka moment during one of my morning meditations (yes, even the Relationship Consultant meditates!). I stumbled upon a magical word that ties all your goals together, breathes life into ideas, and shapes the formless into form. It’s as exciting as finding the last piece of your favorite chocolate cake in the fridge. The word, my dears, is YOU. Yes, the magic is in YOU!

Building Blocks To Belief

In the alleys of my neighborhood, we call this process 'building.' You start with a little idea, and you stack up details until you've got yourself a skyscraper. It's like creating a magnificent love potion, one ingredient at a time.

Let's play a game, "Make YOU Believe." Picture yourself as a child, lost in the world of make-believe, where everything you imagined was real. The trick is to make YOU believe in the reality of your imagination. If YOU believe it, then voila, it’s as real as the scent of your lover's perfume on your pillow!

The Pretend-Tend Game

The action of belief is believing - pretty straightforward, isn’t it? This belief acts as your magic wand, transforming your imagination into reality. Curious to know how you forge this magic wand? By pretending, my love. I kid you not!

Pretend comes from the root word 'tend,' meaning to frequently behave in a particular way. So, what we’re doing here is ‘Pre-YOU-tend Make-YOU-Believe’. Essentially, regularly behave in a way that makes YOU believe, thereby creating trust and confidence in your imagined reality. Just like how you pretend to enjoy your partner's atrocious cooking until it oddly starts to taste good.

Napoleon Hill's Sexy Secret

Napoleon Hill, the sly old fox, was onto this when he said, “If YOU can conceive and believe YOU can achieve.” Conceiving an idea is playing 'Make-YOU-Believe.' And I'm typing this on a laptop because someone played the game. I'm lounging on a couch because someone played the game. You're reading this blog because, well, I played the game. YOU are the critical piece that ties it all together.

Your Pretend Phone Call

Now, here’s my secret sauce: Pretend to be who you want to be 100% of the time. When you’re called to be that person, pick up the phone! By doing this, you create belief and pave the way for you to step into the reality of who you want to be.

Picture this: You're pretending to be a Swagger Coach. Everyone in the office starts calling you Swagger Coach. But when a co-worker shows up looking like he dressed in the dark, you step in with some solid fashion advice. Before you know it, you've become the office fashion icon, and everyone believes in the Swagger Coach!

If you yearn to be the CEO, pretendto be a CEO 100% of the time. When you're asked to answer a CEO-type question, do it with confidence. Soon enough, the company will be eyeing you for a promotion. Remember, my darlings, luck is the sweet spot where preparation meets opportunity!

The Happy Selfish Manifestor

Remember to be unabashedly selfish in this process. Yes, you heard me right! After all, by basking in your happiness, you gift others a glimpse of their potential. If you can’t see your success, darling, change your vantage point. Perhaps it’s time to put on those love-tinted glasses, don't you think?

Key Points:

1. The magical YOU is the key to manifesting your desires.
2. The process of building beliefs starts with pretending and leads to reality.
3. Always be prepared to step into the role you aspire to be.
4. Being selfish in your pursuit of happiness can inspire others.